I sent myself a note from my conversations with my mother tonight about family,

If I challenge what you think it is because I value your opinion.

The internet offers some quotes to identify with:

I respond defensively only when I feel threatened.

being around defensive people can lead to one-sided conversations or emotionally draining situations

You know, I’m awfully fucking hurt by opening up my heart and getting that in return.

Talking to a friend this weekend she said,

She is willing to share her body with others but not her heart.

My jealously twitches first. I recognize it, swallow, step away. It’s all you can do.